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Megan Forbes wrote:
So yes, the number of people in my social life may be "sparse", but I'm extremely satisfied with the company. I feel no lack.
Same here. I have one really good friend, and we do everything together. However, we aren't very good at "socialization". When we have to be around other people, we usually talk about programming, hacking, webdesign, and physics. Any other people within hearing range usually just shake their heads in pity, and ask themselves if my friend and I are speaking English.
Do I have a social life? Not really in the manner of many friends, but in the quality of friends, I would be nearly unsurpassed.
Aaron Eldreth
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While much is too strange to be believed,
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Megan Forbes wrote:
Do I have my measurement of social happiness all wrong in your opinion?
Nope. Important thing is you enjoy it or not. So you are right. If you have one great person which you enjoy with him , that great for all of yyour life. . I really get happy when I read your post althought my social life sucks. 
Mazy
"One who dives deep gets the pearls,the burning desire for realization brings the goal nearer." - Babuji
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Thanks Mazy
My social life has sucked at times - noticeably high school  . However, investing time and care in people usually pays off (unless there is something wrong with the person in question). I hope things improve for you . Out of interest, at what point would a guy in Iran think about getting married? (I always seem to be asking you questions... )
Look at the world about you and trust to your own convictions. - Ansel Adams
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Megan Forbes wrote:
I hope things improve for you . Out of interest, at what point would a guy in Iran think about getting married? (I always seem to be asking you questions... )
Iran is a traditional country , so many people think they HAVE TO marriy because of what religion and tradition say and also because they shouldn't be alone for all of their life, but in developed part of country age of marriage get higher because of bad economical condition. Also again in developed parts , hemosexualy increased(because of many reasons) and marriage become less again(Marriage does not mean same sex mariage here). I myself one of people who belive in marriage and think everybody have a person which suite him/her in this world which should/can live with him/her all of his/her life. 
Mazy
"One who dives deep gets the pearls,the burning desire for realization brings the goal nearer." - Babuji
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Mazdak wrote:
I myself one of people who belive in marriage and think everybody have a person which suite him/her in this world which should/can live with him/her all of his/her life
 Excellent philosophy!
As an aside, I've just noticed we share a birthday, although you seem to have survived 6 less of them than I have 
Look at the world about you and trust to your own convictions. - Ansel Adams
Meg's World - Blog
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Megan Forbes wrote:
Excellent philosophy!
Well , It doesn't still proof , at least for me  but I can imagine I'm still young.
Megan Forbes wrote:
As an aside, I've just noticed we share a birthda
Wowwwwww, what a great day is 21th of May.
Mazy
"One who dives deep gets the pearls,the burning desire for realization brings the goal nearer." - Babuji
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By social life i mean spendig time with my family and friends. Having diner at a nice restaurant with a good wine and a few friends, or going to cinema or theatre, someones birthday, stuff like that.
I don't think my social life is diferent from any of my friends who are not developers, or even involved with IT.
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Like Paul Watson, my social life might not fit the norm. I have a lot of special-interest friends/groups: CP people, gym friends, work friends, old friends from college who are flung across the country, etc. I don't, however, have a lot of general-purpose hanging-out friends, so while my weekdays are generally pretty packed, I don't always do much on the weekends.
"Fish and guests stink in three days." - Benjamin Franlkin
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Is it true that when people speak of "having a life", they generally refer to fast cars, good looking girls, cash...?
Norman Fung
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B'coz i fit and live as geek!.
Nothing in my life except for compo's.
One, Two, Three, Four.. Oops! i live in a
clustered environment with 30+! and doin
programming and testing. Anyway my only
outcry is and will be only on forums like
this!
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Yo fit into the geek's world. What is so bad about it?
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Get over this stereotyping about this geek=="cool" or "not cool". Just because we're technically competent doesn't mean we have to be socially/verbally/asthetically chanlleged to remain a "geek".
Norman Fung
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sure we don't have to be, but it comes naturally.
No matter how many times u take a dump, u can never accumulate more than your mother.
West African proverb(a favorite of my mother).
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Easy! Just sort codeproject members by number of articles and threads posted! :P
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Miguel Lopes wrote:
Just sort codeproject members by number of articles
Marc, the lone ranger...
Due to technical difficulties my previous signature, "I see dumb people" will be off until further notice. Too many people were thinking I was talking about them...
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Developer first requirement is to be a geek. And I am fit with that.
Sonork 100.41263:Anthony_Yio
Life is about experiencing ...
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You don't need to be a geek just because!
Norman Fung
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My Social Life (in the typical sense) is mostly poor now, but I intend to improve on it, and in 3 years or so hope to have an excellent social life.
Nish
p.s. Also helps that I am not really a geek - not half as much as the active CPians anyway. I consider myself to be a non-geek coder
Now with my own blog - void Nish(char* szBlog);
My MVP tips, tricks and essays web site - www.voidnish.com
Request - Could everyone who have in the past, posted on my personal forum on CP, be kind enough to delete all your posts please? I intend to start a personal non-technical blog there, now that it is RSSd and would very much like to empty the forum before I do so - because the posts that are there as of now are mostly test posts and posts that were made before we all knew it was a blog
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Why do you want to "improve" your social life, Nish?
regards,
Paul Watson
Bluegrass
South Africa
Chris Maunder wrote:
"I'd rather cover myself in honey and lie on an ant's nest than commit myself to it publicly."
Jon Sagara replied:
"I think we've all been in that situation before."
Crikey! ain't life grand?
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Paul Watson wrote:
Why do you want to "improve" your social life, Nish?
Because the few odd occasions when I've been to parties or public gatherings, I've felt that I wasn't enjoying it enough because I felt awkward and shy and couldn't really keep up with everyone else. Maybe if I do that sort of stuff more often, I won't be the shy silent odd one out every single time
Nish
Now with my own blog - void Nish(char* szBlog);
My MVP tips, tricks and essays web site - www.voidnish.com
Request - Could everyone who have in the past, posted on my personal forum on CP, be kind enough to delete all your posts please? I intend to start a personal non-technical blog there, now that it is RSSd and would very much like to empty the forum before I do so - because the posts that are there as of now are mostly test posts and posts that were made before we all knew it was a blog
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Fair enough, so long as you don't let it make you feel inadequate. Being a social butterfly doesn't make others better than you.
regards,
Paul Watson
Bluegrass
South Africa
Chris Maunder wrote:
"I'd rather cover myself in honey and lie on an ant's nest than commit myself to it publicly."
Jon Sagara replied:
"I think we've all been in that situation before."
Crikey! ain't life grand?
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Shyness is crippling; no one knows better than I. But being the life of the party is a shallow existence, at best. Somewhere in between is optimal.
Some people think of it as a six-pack; I consider it more of a support group.
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Roger Wright wrote:Shyness is crippling; no one knows better than I.
That is why i stay away from places that activate my shyness. The only thing i can do, is smile until my jaw bones get stucked.
No matter how many times u take a dump, u can never accumulate more than your mother.
West African proverb(a favorite of my mother).
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Paul Watson wrote:
Why do you want to "improve" your social life, Nish?
This seems so "Elisa"...
Due to technical difficulties my previous signature, "I see dumb people" will be off until further notice. Too many people were thinking I was talking about them... 
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Daniel Turini wrote:
This seems so "Elisa"...
Doolittle?
Nish
Now with my own blog - void Nish(char* szBlog);
My MVP tips, tricks and essays web site - www.voidnish.com
Request - Could everyone who have in the past, posted on my personal forum on CP, be kind enough to delete all your posts please? I intend to start a personal non-technical blog there, now that it is RSSd and would very much like to empty the forum before I do so - because the posts that are there as of now are mostly test posts and posts that were made before we all knew it was a blog
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