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not sure what you're saying? You believe that continued punishment is the answer because "they will learn eventually"?

Well that is true. That's exactly how torture works on people. Continued abuse to break the will to resist. That sure works! good on you- totrure your kids for a quiet life (and your dog, too, by the sounds of it!)

Incidentally we have three dogs, none of which poo in the house, and none of which have had their noses rubbed in it, ever. We just trained them - and in fact it is quite easy because generally animals don't sh*t in their dens anyway.


Michael Martin wrote:
Getting a flogging when we got caught was par for the course and taught us either not to do it again or at least not get caught by parents.


So what was the point of the flogging? it didn't stop the behaviour - isn't that what your parents wanted? Or did they just not want to know?


Michael Martin wrote:
Never did me no harm


You're sure about that?


Michael Martin wrote:
even the f***wits from the 70's are better people than 95% of the helicopter parented no idea protected from themselves twat coming out today.


Taking it to extremes doesn't help! You can go too far in any direction - and I do know parents whose kids are absolute monsters - but that's not because they don't hit them, it's because they let them do whatever they want without boundaries - so they know they can get away with anything as mum and dad will just tut.

Depending on the child, it is perfectly possible to explain to them the consequences of their actions, stick to known, discussed boundaries, and consequences.

for example - taking a teenager's phone from them for a day is a far worse punishment in many cases than beating them - and has far fewer problems.


Michael Martin wrote:
interrupting my or my wifes work day or weekends. I told the school to either cane them or get f***ed. They chose themselves to get f***ed


What excellent parenting skills, and a great example to your children!

If instead you had supported the school, gone out of your way a couple of times, your kids would know jut how pissed off you were with them having to take them to school on a Saturday, and would try to avoid it (and hopefully not because you belted them for getting a detention!)

As it is they are in the position of knowing the school cannot give them a detention, and so behaviour modification is out the window!

Honestly, if I was that school I'd consider just phoning you to confirm whatever behaviour was at issue, every time, and let you deal with it in your own way. Sounds like your kids are probably scared enough of you that they would try to avoid that at all costs!
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