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Tom Clement2-Mar-15 5:10
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_Maxxx_2-Mar-15 12:05
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The line is where we, as parents, draw it.

If you hit your child for, say, stabbing a friend in the eye with a pencil, then all good - although they probably already knew they did something really bad.

But, unfortunately, studies show repeatedly that hitting children does not alter bad behaviour.

Children need to know the boundaries of acceptable behaviour - and they can be taught extremely well without hitting them - that is a fact, can be demonstrated and has been time and time again.

How many parents do you know who seem to be hitting their kids all the time? Ask yourself this; if hitting them stopped bad behaviour, why did you have to hit them again?


Michael Martin wrote:


My boy is a typical 18 Gen Y f***wit, but he knows about the line and even when he goes out with mates and gets written off he comes home without pieces missing.


So what? Again, and example of the 'id didn't do me any harm' school of thought!

If he had come home and died on the floor from blood loss and.or overdose would you be saying the same thing? No - because he'd be dead!

it's like the father who said "I don't make my kids wear helmets on their bikes - we never wore them & I'm OK!"

Doesn't matter on your feelings about the helmet laws - if the father had fallen off his bike as a child and was a quadriplegic,he wouldn't have been having the conversation in the first place!


Michael Martin wrote:
have a good look at the students now they don't have the cane to contend with.


Not having the cane is not the reason. Not having acceptable behaviour policies is. At most schools I have taught at, the punishment for misnbehaving is to stay in for 10 minutes at break time. THAT is what is f***ed.

When I was at school, I would much rather have been whacked (especially by that good looking Maths teacher!) than have to go home and tell my parents I had to go into school on Saturday for detention - or even stay at school late for same. And my parents never hit me. they may have shouted, they may have told me how disappointed they were etc. But I wasn't frightened of them!

Actually, going into school, in uniform, on a Saturday, was just bloody awful!

The point is, you are taking one thing (absence of cane) and extrapolating without taking other things into account. It doesn't work.
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