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Slow down a little and take a deep breath.
1. This is the internet. It's not a formal dinner party. You need to understand that, try as we might, codes of behaviour are not as formal or clear cut as in Real Life. I'm not defending, just lamenting.
2. Saying "you won't get a formal apology" does not mean anyone can get away with anything. That's false logic. You're a programmer, logic is your life, so be more careful.
3. Schoolyard bullying sessions thrive on reaction. The more you react, the more you goad the perpetrator into continuing. You come from a very different culture from many of those here, and unfortunately you are in the minority so it will be up to you to adjust.
I don't mean to say that you need to accept abuse. I mean that you will need to adjust to how you deal with it. A formal complain to me, via email, is fine, and I will always follow up. Continually yelling and screaming is not appropriate and comes across as very immature. Your best defence is to minimise the perceived effect of any attack.
Overall, though, your best course of action is to look around and listen to what everyone has to say. You are doing yourself no favours in your behaviour. Others have tried to point this out but you ignore it. This leads to frustration and then ridicule.
Step back, learn and grow, and everything's will be fine. However, if you refuse to take heed and continue in your ways then you in turn become an abuser of the site. And that is something I will not abide.cheers,
Chris Maunder
The Code Project | Co-founder
Microsoft C++ MVP
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Abusive behaviors need to be stoped immediately and take care off before it gose out of hand.
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Cpianism wrote: behaviors
Cpianism wrote: stoped
Cpianism wrote: take
Cpianism wrote: off
Cpianism wrote: gose
Behaviour
Stopped
Taken
Of
Gets
Not bad, 5 mistakes in 17 words.------------------------------------
I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
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Exactly the tactic you tried with your last account[s]:
- post purile drivil
- get told to stop
- start being rude
- rudeness returned 10x
- Run to Chris crying
I seem to remember that the reply you received in each of your previous incarnations was to grow up or ship out.
I mentioned on Friday that I was suspicious that you are 'Teh One', now I am certain. Please just stop the drivel and there is a chance you could sneek past. If you continue then the flame throwers will be set to crispy fry and I know you remember what happens then.
Panic, Chaos, Destruction.
My work here is done.
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Hey "teh" boukh, do you know the story of the boy, who cried "abusive behaviour"?
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I think I'd much prefer if everyone just stopped acting like this was a high school yard.
Can everyone just build a bridge and get over it.cheers,
Chris Maunder
The Code Project Co-founder
Microsoft C++ MVP
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I will not get over it untill I get a formal apology from Dalek. 
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| Pogue mahone! ------------------------------------
I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
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Dalek Dave wrote: Pogue mahone!
Did you read that Chris he is doing it again and again and continuo to abuse me. If you chris don't start doing anything about this then CP will start lose its respect and credibility. modified on Monday, February 8, 2010 7:51 AM
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Ah, a great band - fronted by rock's best looking frontman."WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.
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| Magic. Antoine de Saint-Exupery: Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away.
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Despite being asked to post in English, this[^] numpty refuses to."WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.
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Who said that english is the only language allowed in CP?
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Everyone, it is in the rules.
Twat.------------------------------------
I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
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You should be banned for abusive users in CP.
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Why, because I point out how stupid you are?
That is not abuse, it is fact.
Or do you feel facts should be hidden and changed just to protect the stupid?
Grow up you infantile arse.------------------------------------
I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
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Look who is talking about rules... One of the important rules that chris said is: Insults, slap-downs and sarcasm aren't welcome
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If you don't like the insults, stop acting like a twat.
If the slap-downs are hurtful, stop inviting them.
I can't help you with the sarcasm, you either get it or you don't, it depends on how clever you are.
I bet you get the sarcasm every time!------------------------------------
I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
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Let it go.
Please.
I know you have an issue with the guy but this helps nothing.cheers,
Chris Maunder
The Code Project Co-founder
Microsoft C++ MVP
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I am already moving on.
(But he does wind people up!)------------------------------------
I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
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It is the will and consensus of the majority of users - many of whom do not have English as a first language. If you post in a language that is not spoken by as many people, you will not get the sheer volume of answers that you will get if you post in a majority language. Like it or not, English is the lingua franca of the internet."WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith As Braveheart once said, "You can take our freedom but you'll never take our Hobnobs!" - Martin Hughes.
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I wonder what he will complain about next?
Your use of Latin?------------------------------------
I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
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Pete O'Hanlon wrote: If you post in a language that is not spoken by as many people, you will not get the sheer volume of answers
Then it depend on the poster to chose the language he want to use and its his problem how many replies he get. I don't see why some consider it abusive and call for banning him.
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Cpianism wrote: I don't see why some consider it abusive and call for banning him.
Please direct me to where ANYONE said it was abusive?
Are you making things up again?
Oh dear, the febrile imagination has run riot.
The point being made is that he has been told to post in English, and he has refused.
That is not abusive, merely twattish, something you should know all about.------------------------------------
I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
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Why then he was pointed at him in the bugs page?
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