Refer this code it will help you..
protected void RowDataBound(object sender, GridViewRowEventArgs e)
{
if (e.Row.RowType == DataControlRowType.DataRow && gvProduct.EditIndex == e.Row.RowIndex)
{
DropDownList product_size= (DropDownList)e.Row.FindControl("ddlproduct_size");
string query = "select distinct product_size from product";
SqlCommand cmd = new SqlCommand(query);
ddlCities.DataSource = GetData(cmd);
ddlCities.DataTextField = "product_size";
ddlCities.DataValueField = "product_size";
ddlCities.DataBind();
ddlCities.Items.FindByValue((e.Row.FindControl("lblproduct_size") as Label).Text).Selected = true;
}
}