best whays to get in to programming

I like your question better, now. :)
What language do you want, I suggest C#, but Delphi or Visual Basic are reasonable.
For learning, keep the bar low, for now.
If you aim high and fail, you will get discouraged. As you learn more, get into more complex stuff. You would not try to run a marathon without training, and this is training your mind.
There are two parts to this, writing code and algorithm development.
Writing code is like following a cooking recipe.
Algorithm development is like figuring out how to make Baked Alaska, without a recipe.
Start out by cooking, learning how to use the tools, before you try to find new dishes.
Program development at a high level is a lot thinking and planning, and you don't have the experience to do that, yet. Don't expect to start by writing a 3d first person shooter.
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Find an easy problem that is explained simply.
Start with an existing project that does something close to that.
Figure out what it is doing, compare it to the problem.
Figure out what you need to change to make it do what you want.
Make small changes, running it often to see what the changes do.
You don't have to learn everything at once, baby steps.
Is you don't understand something, Google it, then ask here.
Ask intelligent questions, give an indication that you have tried to figure it out, and be specific. Vague questions with no context will not get good answers.
Some people will give you a hard time, others will help.
You have a task, so ignore the people aren't helping you.
Good luck, write home often and don't get discouraged.
Richard