create two pages,one is show the record,other one is delete your data where you link to the record
eg:
show.page
<br />
<html><br />
<head>..........</head><br />
<br />
<body><br />
Dim sql <br />
sql="select id,title from table"<br />
set rs=conn.execute(sql)
For i=1 to rs.count<br />
response.write("<a href='delete.asp?ID="&rs('id')&"'>"&rs('title')&"</a><br>")<br />
Next<br />
%><br />
</body><br />
<br />
</html><br />
delete.asp
<br />
<%<br />
Dim id<br />
id=request('ID')<br />
conn.execute("delete * from table where ID="&ID)<br />
%>