here is i got solution
string connectionString = null;
connectionString = ConfigurationManager.ConnectionStrings["AccessConnectionString"].ConnectionString;
con.ConnectionString = connectionString;
string medicinename = Convert.ToString(dataGridView1.Rows[e.RowIndex].Cells["Medicine_name"].Value);
DateTime Expiry_Date=new DateTime ();
con.Open();
cmd = new OleDbCommand("select Expiry_Date as Expiry_Date from Medicine_Available_Detail where Medicine_Name=@Medicine_Name",con);
cmd.Parameters.AddWithValue("@Medicine_Name",medicinename);
OleDbDataReader dr = cmd.ExecuteReader();
while (dr.Read())
{
Expiry_Date = Convert.ToDateTime(dr["Expiry_Date"]);
}
dataGridView1.Rows[e.RowIndex].Cells["Expiry_Date"].Value = Expiry_Date;
con.Close();