If you are a lone developer then switch to GIT source control instead, as it does not require a "central server" and is way faster in commits.
Generally use the Tortoise series of tools (tortoisesvn, tortoisegit) as it has a very user friendly interface and make things easier to work with.
To merge branches in svn see :
http://svnbook.red-bean.com/en/1.7/svn.branchmerge.basicmerging.html[
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