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Do Developers have a Life?   [Edit]

Survey period: 10 May 2004 to 16 May 2004

Usually it’s thought that a programmer has no social life. Is this reality? (suggested by Mubashir Raza Ali Khan Balouch)

OptionVotes% 
I have an excellent social life36220.62
I have an OK social life62735.71
I have a pretty poor social life45726.03
I have no life. None.31017.65



 
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Daniel Turini10-May-04 4:26
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Maxwell Chen10-May-04 16:58
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Uwe Keim10-May-04 2:39
sitebuilderUwe Keim10-May-04 2:39 
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Roger Wright10-May-04 4:47
professionalRoger Wright10-May-04 4:47 
GeneralOK social Life Pin
Anand Paranjpe9-May-04 20:10
Anand Paranjpe9-May-04 20:10 
GeneralSomeone is telling the truth about having no life Pin
Jon Sagara9-May-04 18:46
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Roger Allen10-May-04 0:18
Roger Allen10-May-04 0:18 
GeneralPerspective Pin
Paul Watson9-May-04 18:45
sitebuilderPaul Watson9-May-04 18:45 
Not to get too deep on this but it depends on whose perspective you judge from.

If you asked my co-workers, family or the couple of flesh-and-blood friends* I have, they will say my social life is on par with a nudist in Mormon territory.

If you asked FHM, GQ and Playboy I would be cast as a null object in the social namespace. PaulWatson.GetSocialLife(); : Object reference not set to an instance of an object.

But if you asked me "Paul, are you happy with your social life?" I would say "Very, Bob."

My social life just happens to not fit the norm. I do spend a lot of time behind this CRT and here on CP but I talk to a lot of people, interact with a billion cultures and am saturated by ideas and discussions from every corner of the globe.

My friends are flung from New York to Tazmania to Cebu to Ireland to Botswana to Berlin to London to Tierra del Fuego. They range from 16 year olds to 66 year olds. They do everything from photography to developing to fashion to writing to packing shelves to design to drinking beer on their porch all day.

We discuss everything from that evil man Bush to the power of Visual Basic to idealism to philosophy to movies to music to what colour underwear she is wearing (black).

But no, according to society a social life means going out every night, getting hammered, talking about the weather, who is shagging who and what Posh and Becks** are up to.

I know most of you know better, that cliquey society is not a social life but someone forgot to tell the great unwashed.

So I don't feel bad admitting to no social life according to convention. Call it dellusion, call it denial, I am happy with my social life as it is and that is what counts.

Are the people who read and live FHM and GQ really happy with theirs?

* Because the rest of you are all make believe until I actually meet you, kapiche?

** Or is that the beer?


regards,
Paul Watson
Bluegrass
South Africa

Christopher Duncan quoted:
"...that would require my explaining Einstein's Fear of Relatives"

Crikey! ain't life grand?


XmlTransformer, my latest CP article.
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Maxwell Chen9-May-04 19:26
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Ian Darling10-May-04 3:42
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Matt Newman9-May-04 18:04
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Ravi Bhavnani10-May-04 11:44
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