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AnswerRe: Have to vs must Pin
raddevus23-Jan-20 4:43
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Kaladin23-Jan-20 4:55
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Stefan_Lang23-Jan-20 20:56
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Kaladin24-Jan-20 1:41
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Mark_Wallace23-Jan-20 5:55
Mark_Wallace23-Jan-20 5:55 
Be very careful with "have to", because it implies a higher power.

Good examples:
- You have to obey the speed limit (because the law says so).
- You have to do your homework (because your teacher says so).
- You have to charge your phone battery (because the laws of Physics say so).
- You have to fill in fields marked with asterisks (because the form won't work if you don't).

Only one bad example is needed:
- You have to do what I want (because I am a higher power, and am far more important than you).

If you are not a higher power, the reaction will be along the lines of "He's an arrogant little shite, that one!"

i.e. don't tell customers (or anyone else) that they "have to" do something that's for your benefit.


"Must", as you say, implies "for your benefit":
- You must book your flight early (because it fills up pretty quickly).


However, we also have a "gentle" imperative, which can be used for either case, but is less pushy:
- You need to get that finished by the end of the week (because I/you/we/they need it).


But if you want to be really co-operative, go reflexive:
- I need you to help me peeling these grapes.
I wanna be a eunuchs developer! Pass me a bread knife!

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