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There is nothing like being positive about a coworker to a manager, tends to confuse the crap out of them. So there are 2 benefits of doing this.
This is especially valid when you are so senior/essential that you position is unassailable.
Never underestimate the power of human stupidity
RAH
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Have you used webMethods?
Caveat Emptor.
"Progress doesn't come from early risers – progress is made by lazy men looking for easier ways to do things." Lazarus Long
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Marc Clifton wrote: Would you take this just as a failed attempt by the manager at humor?
Would you ignore it, keep your head down, and not do anything like this again, even though the company's "employee conduct" manual expressly has Dilbertesque phrases about team building, communication, etc.
Would you write a complaint?
Other?
Tell Marc that he should keep doing what he thinks is best and ignore everyone else.
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Bassam Abdul-Baki wrote: Tell Marc that he should keep doing what he thinks is best and ignore everyone else.
If Marc did that, you'd be reading about "the police are still interrogating Marc regarding his motives." 
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I should have phrased that better to imply doing the work. There's always another option.
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Marc Clifton wrote: the police are still interrogating Marc regarding his motives
I would think that the motives would be obvious, even to a policeman. 
If you have an important point to make, don't try to be subtle or clever. Use a pile driver. Hit the point once. Then come back and hit it again. Then hit it a third time - a tremendous whack.
--Winston Churchill
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Talk to your manager and explain your perspective of what happened.
But, remember, the 'new' employee has his OWN manager he has to report to and if you sully the waters, it may be the waters he has to swim in.
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Unless the manager is a known jerk, I'd assume his intentions are good and he's just trying to prevent you from being distracted/interrupted. One of the top complaints I've heard form developers I've worked with over the years is that constant distractions prevent them from accomplishing as much as they'd hoped to.
It sounds to me like it's at least possible this manager knows your time is both limited and valuable, and he's trying to ensure that you've got the space needed to focus. So perhaps just approach him and tell him you appreciate that he's trying to proactively guard you from interruptions. But also mention that working with the new employee was your idea, that it helped you solve an immediate problem, and helped you better understand the third party product you integrate with.
It's also possible that this manager is just upset that his new hire went off and spent a couple of hours with you, and he's using your limited schedule as an excuse to exercise a little bit of power over his subordinate. In this case, the approach of telling the manager that
a) You appreciate his efforts and
b) You appreciate his employee's efforts
still works, because it boxes him and an makes it difficult for him to retaliate in any meaningful way. If possible, post your comments in the same chat where the original comment occurred (so your comment will also be logged), and follow up by thanking him in person too.
That way, if his intentions are good, you both win. And if his intentions were nefarious, you still win...and he doesn't lose, because you make him and his new hire look good. If he's a jerk who likes playing politics, he'll note that you skilfully outmaneuvered him, and in the future he'll be careful about how he treats you to ensure you you remain an ally, not an enemy.
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Ryan Peden wrote: Unless the manager is a known jerk
Bingo! The general consensus among the rank and file is that they would never want to work for this guy. In fact, at least two people that I know of have asked (and were granted) transfers to another department because of this manager.
Ryan Peden wrote: It's also possible that this manager is just upset that his new hire went off and spent a couple of hours with you, and he's using your limited schedule as an excuse to exercise a little bit of power over his subordinate.
Bingo again! His management style is basically smile and say good morning as he passes you in the hallway, and smack you with a stick for any initiative or deviation from his bean counter mentality until you submit to being a drone. I suspect he will incarnate as a Borg in the far future.
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Ryan Peeden: in the future he'll be careful about how he treats you
And will be coming up with a carefully thought-out strategy to ensure that you and pesky little Mark atleast think twice before outmaneuvering him in the future. 
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Based purely on this anecdote, I think his manager made a valid observation. From HIS perspective, you are a limited resource and you are using up time of his resource in what may be unrelated to the latter's work. It's entirely possible his manager doesn't really care, but is reacting to a message given him by your manager or upper management.
More importantly, this was written to another person, not you. It's really none of your business. In addition, this isn't your "own time"; it's the company's time.
My advice: IF this looks like it's NOT going to blow up into a bigger issue, do nothing. Otherwise, go to the other guy's manager and say something like, "I heard you had concerns about the time I spent with X the other day. He was curious about integration and I felt that briefing him would be helpful to him and the company. I apologize for not clearing this with you first."
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Joe Woodbury wrote: More importantly, this was written to another person, not you. It's really none of your business.
Agreed.
Joe Woodbury wrote: I apologize for not clearing this with you first."
Oh god, I can't do that. I don't participate well in an arbitrary dictatorship where I have to seek permission before taking a sh*t.
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Do you know his home address?
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I hope Marc follows up on this one. I'm ready to take notes. 
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I would opt for a direct confrontation 
Clears the air as quickly as can, and as a pro he wouldn't be taking that personally. What would you prefer, if you were in the managers shoes?
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I believe you've got a lot of good advice here.
Apart from that, do you trust your own manager?
If you do it could be a good idea to ask for advice as he or she might know how the other manager is wired.
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Jörgen Andersson wrote: Apart from that, do you trust your own manager?
Mostly. My direct manager (who works under the manager of the other person) definitely goes into "circle the wagons" mode when encountering confrontational issues.
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My reaction would NOT be to write something in a forum somewhere on the internet. But I might be saying to myself, as long as I keep getting payed, I'll continue to do that job for which I recieve that pay.
You know the sermon, the one the judge always gives to the pool of prospective jurors that are down to a single room of badge bearers but it's so late in the day that he's got to let them go.
"Don't discuss the case with anyone, your kids, your wife, your dog, your mechanic, your butcher, your tailor, the guy down at the local hardware, the cashier at the bodega ..."
This is a swearing-in issue.
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RedDk wrote: My reaction would NOT be to write something in a forum somewhere on the internet.
But where else am I going to get good feedback? And if this post is discovered by said people (highly unlikely) I actually really don't care.
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I wouldn't mention anything to any managers in particular, but (and especially if the new hire is fairly inexperienced in comparison) have a chat with the new hire to reassure them that they hadn't been wasting your time & to pretty much ignore the email.
If something similar needs to happen in future, it may be wise to let the manager know in advance (in a let-me-know-if-you-don't-want-this-to-happen style email that he may well not even read in time).
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All communications are either an act of love, or a cry for help.
His was the latter. As a manager, ignore it and move on. In our world, we have our #1 rule:
It's About People.
If you violate that rule (by treating people poorly), YOU won't be happy.
I had a manager write up an employee who left her cubicle, went to the managers glass office, and took a DOCTORS call about a lab result that needed to be handled in private. She worked with mostly men around her. I think it was perfectly reasonable, everyone said it was a few minutes, and she locked the office back up.
Clearly violating rule #1: It's About People.
When we forget that... Things end badly!
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Without skipping a beat I would have told him (for all to hear):
"I'm never too busy if it means I can help someone else get their job done when I'm also able to do mine".
(Other story)
When someone "over me" (contracting) blind sided me in a meeting, I told him afterwards not to "blind-side" me again and tell me beforehand what's on the agenda. He showed nothing but respect for me for years after and gave me excellent references.
(Two weeks ago I had someone removed which was my condition to do "phase 2"; another contract)
Know thy enemy (or friend); and thyself.
And timing is (almost) everything.
"(I) am amazed to see myself here rather than there ... now rather than then".
― Blaise Pascal
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Marc Clifton wrote: Marc works only 3 days a week so his time is very constrained and he eats that stuff up [refering to "integrations"] so he'll probably never tell you that he's too busy."
I gotta ask.. is that manager right? Is your time very constrained? Do you love that stuff to the point of being willing to take time out of your busy day to discuss it with coworkers? Have you ever given management the appearance that you've been distracted from your real work, even once, because you were helping others?
Maybe the manager is just trying to do good management by letting the new guy know that you're a resource, but one not to be abused, and is doing it in a way that isn't as tactful as we'd all like.
That said, like others suggested, letting the manager know that you got good value out of your time interacting with them as well, sounds like the right way to address this.
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patbob wrote: Maybe the manager is just trying to do good management by letting the new guy know that you're a resource, but one not to be abused, and is doing it in a way that isn't as tactful as we'd all like.
I suspect that is the case.
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