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Johnny J.18-Mar-16 0:38
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I'm rapidly approaching 50, and for some reason, I find that I'm getting more and more sentimental for every year that passes. It didn't use to be like that. Don't know where it came from all of a sudden... Mid-life crisis most likely... Sigh | :sigh:

In a sentimentality attack a couple of days ago, I googled my old elementary school. I lost all of the old school photos some years ago when my mom died, and I forgot to secure them from her possessions before the rest was thrown out. I'm kinda sad about that, actually.

I had hoped that it might be possible to locate some of them online. It wasn't. Instead I located an article in one of Denmarks biggest newspapers. About my old school, and how the walls had been filled with asbestos and that one of the teachers had officially been diagnosed with lung cancer because of it (and died two months later). Apparently, it was a big scandal in the Danish papers.

It was MY old class teacher. She had worked at the school for 15 years, and I attended the school as a student for 11 of those years (kindergarten included). Unsure | :~

Right now, I must admit that I'm quite worried, and I don't really know if I ought to go see a doctor and get a lung x-ray done. Am I too nervous? There must have been hundreds of pupils there while I attended the school, and at least 15-20 teachers. And one of them died. What are the chances that the rest of us have been affected? Confused | :confused:

Anyway, that was only the (long) background for this post. Because of the find and my subsequent worry, I thought "Why not try to contact some of my old class mates? They might have heard something." At least, they're still in Denmark, I live in Sweden now...

I googled some of them. I didn't manage to locate my very best friend from back then. He doesn't appear to have neither FB nor anything else. But I did find some of the others (I think). It was harder than you should think, because I didn't recall the last names of all of them, and of course, the girls could have changed name by marriage. But once I found one of them on FB, most of it unravelled by itself, because a lot of them had actually kept more or less in contact throughout the years.

Today I composed a quick email to one of them whom I was good friends with (and semi-secretly had a HUGE crush on) and sent it to what I believe is her current email address.

Now I'm quite nervous. Did I find the right person? What is she going to say to being contacted by someone she knew 35 years ago and has had NO contact with since then? Confused | :confused:

What would you say? Would you be amused? Annoyed? Rather not reminded of such old misery (it was school after all)??? Should I have left bygones be bygone? Confused | :confused:

To be honest, I don't know. What do you think? What would you have done? I'm really curious to know Confused | :confused:
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