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As I typically do, I would change the question.
I work out of the house, and have for years. It takes a while to get used to.

The challenge is that we get paid so well for our time, that economic decisions are skewed!
I have a screen door to re-screen. I could buy 2 new ones for what it will cost me in lost time to re-screen it!

But I have learned if I go that route, eventually, I will be paying someone to hug my daughter and say good night.

So, I want you to consider changing the question. What other fulfilling things do you want to do in your life? How much would you like to socialize? How much exercise are you getting?

Consider getting a gym membership. Get up in the morning, go to the gym, get a LIGHT workout in. Buy a heartrate monitor. Choose a NICE and CLEAN gym. One that has a Sauna and Hot Tub.

The trick to going to the gym is GETTING to the gym. Everyday I would get up, and go to the gym. My "agreement" with myself was that if I did not feel like working out, I would have an "Executive Workout" (Hot Tub and Sauna), which I deserved from whatever work I did that had me so tired I did not feel like going. IT Works. The heart rate monitor was great too because I noticed when I was run down, my heart rate was running higher than usual (meaning, I should not put too much stress on myself).

But I got out every day, and paid myself, first thing in the morning. I felt better all day. I slept better.

Finally, we should WORK for a living, not LIVE to work. I still have a tough time with this, so schedule everything that is important to you. I have a standing Tuesday night hangout with some friends (the group varies), but we get together because life is short (I lost my brother to cancer,
a good friend to MS, flying home to see my mother in hospice tomorrow. I imagine over the next couple of years, I will be burying my father).

Get a hobby, even if it is hiring chefs to come in and cook for you, and showing you how to make your favorite meals. I dont think you would ever regret learning how to cook amazing things.

Remember, our code will accrue technical debt on its own. We will accrue Social Debt on our own!

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