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Fabio Franco23-Sep-14 2:59
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I think the best piece of advice I've seen so far is from Mark Merrens Wallace, yet you seemed to speak up to everyone but him.

But just backing up his point. If you go directly to the guy which is making you blow up steam, you may actually be pleasantly surprised.

Yeah, I know, sometimes people can be cocky and poor listeners, but if you go with the correct approach in a humble and suggestive way, you have I high chance of success. This can lead you to get an ally with management and he may even start coming to you for advice. As a side effect you will even stop venting at the meetings Smile | :)

I know it can be difficult to do what I just said, it's easier for some types of personalities. If this type of approach is difficult to you, it is the exact type soft skill you should start practicing asap. It's in many circumstances more important than your technical skills and it's determinant in your career growth.

I don't know you, but venting online reminds of my not so much younger self, so I hope what I said helps you deal with this type of situation.

By the way, count to 10 Laugh | :laugh:

Regards,
Fábio
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