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I hate it when politicians do that: "I sorry if anyone was offended by ..." rather than "I apologise for giving offence when ..."
The second version is taking responsibility, the former is blaming the offended.
"I have no idea what I did, but I'm taking full credit for it." - ThisOldTony
"Common sense is so rare these days, it should be classified as a super power" - Random T-shirt
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Often true, but sometimes the easily offended are to blame.
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Exactly. I use that one all the time.
If I'm wrong, I'll own up. But if some snowflake decides to take offense at something I say, that's really not my problem and I hardly ever miss an opportunity to tell them exactly that - whether they understand it as I intended or not.
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So the first one is correct about 95% of the time?
If you can't laugh at yourself - ask me and I will do it for you.
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No, "I'm sorry" is never an apology; it simply means "I share your sorrow" or "I feel your pain".
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PIEBALDconsult wrote: "I'm sorry" is never an apology; i Did you mean to write that? Because in English the way to apologize is to literally say "I'm sorry."
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Fight for left-handed rights and hand equality.
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ZurdoDev wrote: in English the way to apologize is to literally say "I'm sorry." Or better still say, "I apologize".
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Richard MacCutchan wrote: Or better still say, "I apologize". From my experience, the two are identical.
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Everyone is born right handed. Only the strongest overcome it.
Fight for left-handed rights and hand equality.
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No, people simply use the word wrong, often to conceal the fact that they are not apologizing.
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PIEBALDconsult wrote: people simply use the word wrong In the US? Really?
I've never thought there was a difference between "I apologize" and "I'm sorry." What experiences have taught you otherwise?
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Everyone is born right handed. Only the strongest overcome it.
Fight for left-handed rights and hand equality.
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To say sorry simply means that you "feel bad" about what happened, whether you were the cause of it or not.
To apologize literally means to explain.
An apology is where you explain what happened, or why you did what you did.
So it's possible to say sorry without apologizing.
The difficult we do right away...
...the impossible takes slightly longer.
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Interesting. I had never heard that opinion before.
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Everyone is born right handed. Only the strongest overcome it.
Fight for left-handed rights and hand equality.
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Me either. It's really given me something to think about.
I have spat apologies back in people's faces in the past, because they refused to use the word sorry. For me, knowing that they care about my mental state is far more valuable to me than understanding why they did what they did. I don't really care why they did it in fact.
I was always taught that "I'm sorry" is what you say when you're apologising and "I apologise" is what you say when you're not actually sorry, but wish to move past the barrier created by the incident.
But then again, I guess it's like all language.
The important part is the idea communicated, not the sounds used to do so.
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Only because the extended usage doesn't differentiate between both options it doesn't necessarily mean that the mean the same.
In german or in spanish they are used similarly too but they are not semantically equal.
And the "psicological" aspect is a bit different too.
The spanish "Sorry" is a reflective verb (I am receiving / feeling the action)
The spanish "Apologies" is an active verb (I am doing the action)
M.D.V.
If something has a solution... Why do we have to worry about?. If it has no solution... For what reason do we have to worry about?
Help me to understand what I'm saying, and I'll explain it better to you
Rating helpful answers is nice, but saying thanks can be even nicer.
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I was a reading about the reggae-tarian diet - potatoes, carrots, turnips, parsnips etc.
Its strictly roots.
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I could definitely dig that diet.
“That which can be asserted without evidence, can be dismissed without evidence.”
― Christopher Hitchens
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Duncan Edwards Jones wrote: I was a reading about the reggae-tarian diet - potatoes, carrots, turnips, parsnips etc. No grass?
Anything that is unrelated to elephants is irrelephant Anonymous
- The problem with quotes on the internet is that you can never tell if they're genuine Winston Churchill, 1944
- Never argue with a fool. Onlookers may not be able to tell the difference. Mark Twain
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Johnny J. wrote: Duncan Edwards Jones wrote: I was a reading about the reggae-tarian diet - potatoes, carrots, turnips, parsnips etc. No grass?
I'm counting 21 meals in a week and just 4 ingredients so far... Surely you'd be able to suck-down a marley then pull a wombat at some point?
Wombat
Australian Marsupial that eats roots and leaves.
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Your suggestion fills me with dread
"If we don't change direction, we'll end up where we're going"
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As long as you don't lock yourself in, no worries... be happy...
Software Zen: delete this;
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I was going to create a diet, myself - in fact I did. I'd publish and get rich selling it to those people who always buy the latest diet book because it must be the real thing. Lots of bucks on the TV talk show circuit, giving lectures, and of course, my special line of branded food. Mine, in fact, is the real thing.
It's called the "EAT LESS" diet. Following the color cover, introduction, and gratuitous (and even self-serving) acknowledgements, the book begins with chapter 1 page 1.
"Eat Less"
The remaining 127 pages are entitled: 'For your notes' and are otherwise blank.
This diet works every time (but I'd never dare claim it to be fool-proof!)
Ravings en masse^ |
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Anna von Hausswolff - The Mysterious Vanishing of Electra(Official Live Video)[^]
An ex-coworker messaged me this on Facebook all of a sudden.
Said it would be my taste and apparently he still knows me.
The album version is nice, but this live version is nicer.
According to Wikipedia Anna is a Swedish pianist, organist and songwriter.
She's also the daughter of avant garde sound artist Carl Michael von Hauswolff, whom I've never heard of.
As for her music style "Von Hausswolff's gothic-style music is described as "art pop, drone, and post-metal", with "a juxtaposition of dark and bright". The Guardian has described it as "funeral pop"."
Remember that for if you ever want to get snobbish over music styles
The music is awesome though
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Deathbed is a good one too, especially that live version.
I rarely need 2.5 hrs of relaxing Cello music
Not that I dislike the cello, just not 2.5 hours of it
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