thank you so much johannesnestler for your answers ,,,,
i got solution and i gone put it here it maybe useful for someone else one day ....
string stconnect = Path.GetDirectoryName(Assembly.GetExecutingAssembly().GetName().CodeBase);
string stdataconn= Path.Combine(stconnect, "MyDatabase#1.sdf");
string stsqlc = string.Format("DataSource={0}", stdataconn);
sqlceconnect cn=new sqlceconnect(stqlc);
thanks