Freind , Try this to play the vedio and for upload please be specific that where you want to upload your vedio like in DB or else where???
<object id="mediaPlayer" width="320" height="285">
classid='CLSID:22d6f312-b0f6-11d0-94ab-0080c74c7e95'
codebase='http://activex.microsoft.com/activex/controls/mplayer/en/nsmp2inf.cab#Version=5,1,52,701'
standby='Loading Microsoft Windows Media Player components...' type='application/x-oleobject'>
<param name="fileName" value="video/MOV00479.MPG" />
<param name="animationatStart" value="true" />
<param name="transparentatStart" value="true" />
<param name="autoStart" value="true" />
<param name="showControls" value="true" />
<param name="loop" value="false" />
</object>