You mean you want to configure the server side? Basically the SQL Server can take connections at any time so you just have to ensure few things:
- protocols etc, use configuration manager for that:
http://technet.microsoft.com/en-us/library/ms174212.aspx[
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- logins and users:
http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/aa337562.aspx[
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- and possibly you have to open a port for sql server if you have a firewall between the server and the other machine.
There are lots of other configuration things also but hopefully this gets you started.