maybe this is good way :
make a property in child form as parent;
private ParentForm parent;
public ParentForm Parent
{
get{return parent;}
set{parent=value}
}
well you have parent form object as a member of your child form whith this property.
then use this code in parent form:
ChildForm child=new ChildForm();
child.Parent=this;
child.Show();
with this , you have access to parent form members in your child form!
hope help !