Don't ask a question that way: make a list of your actual questions, describe what your problem is with each, and explain what you have tired to fix it.
Then post that as your question.
Quick Answers isn't a "discussion forum", it's here for "I got this problem" - "here's how to fix it" question / answer sessions.
We do have forums for discussions - loads of 'em - but you'd probably be better asking such question of the people who created it:
GIS Mapping Software, Location Intelligence & Spatial Analytics | Esri[
^] - they have a dedicated community forum which is probably a better fit for "general" questions about the basics than a "generic" software development website like this would be:
Esri Community | GIS Professional Community[
^]